Sunday, October 25, 2015

Excess Baggage

One way to bring unnecessary baggage into a relationship is to hold onto relationships from the past. I don't understand how people can be in committed relationships, engaged, and even married but yet hold onto relationships from the past.

You might say, my partner trusts me but they have no control over emotional ties that were formed from previous relationships. So why even put yourself in the position to cheat either physically or emotionally with someone from the past?

If two individuals that use to deal with one another are now in committed relationships, I see no reason for them to interact unless they have children together. If you are still dealing with individuals from the past you might want to question your current relationship. If you truly love and are happy with the one that you're with why do you need to communicate or even hang out with those from the past?

Soul ties are real and so hard to break. Perhaps, I can interact with someone from my past and think that I'll be okay. However, no matter what you tell yourself you cannot control memories from the past and how that person made you feel. When you least expect it, those emotions can flood right back in.

Do everything that you can to protect the one that you love and that means doing whatever it takes to minimize the soul ties that you have from the people that you dealt with in the past.

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  1. People who spend their time sowing to their flesh will reap of the flesh corruption, Galatians 6:8 and he that walk after the spirit shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh, Galatians 5:16. Do not give place (opportunity) to the devil Ephesian 4:27. So people fall into fornication, adultery, and homosexuality because they flirt with it.
    God bless you
    MUCH Love, Dad


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