Sunday, March 15, 2015

Ask For What's Yours

As a woman, you're not just supposed to sit in the corner and look pretty. Although, you may be the weaker sex you have the power to accomplish just as many things as a man. Remember, you will never be a man but you still have the ability to the get the job done. Which means you have to learn how to allocate your resources.

Never depend on a man without having anything for yourself. Why, because if he leaves you will have nothing for yourself. Have a vision of your own. Know how to take care of and how to support yourself. How can you support your future spouse if you don't know how to do anything for yourself? Perhaps, you may never marry. Will you just forever wait and feel sorry for yourself.

For the most part, I have always gone after what I wanted. If you don't ask, you won't get it. At this point in my life, I would rather learn from the mistakes of others. Therefore, I obtain knowledge from those that have already did or are doing what I aspire to do. I'm very observant and I apply what I learn to my life.

It is very important for young girls and young women to have strong male figures in their lives. I have been blessed to have a wonderful father and wonderful uncles that have supported me and encouraged me along the way. I'm making a point to concentrate on the strong men in my life as they encourage me to be the best woman that I can be. Only a man can truly tell a woman how other men are so that they aren't taken advantage of.

Also, strong male role models show a young girl or a young woman what she should expect from any man that she decides to entertain in her life. The men in my life have showed me that anything worth having requires hard work. More importantly, they have taught me the importance of family and what it means to be there for one another. They didn't just say this and that but they actually followed through with actions. A true leader doesn't just tell a person what they should be doing, but also shows them.

This message is for all the men out there. Be there for your daughters, nieces, sisters, and cousins. They are looking for a role model. They need you!!!! Teach them the ropes, instill them with knowledge.

To the young girls and young ladies out there, Know Your Worth. Don't let the fact that you're a woman stop you from being great. Build your empire with or without a man.

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  1. Amen
    James 4:2-3
    2. Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not.
    3 .Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss(wrong motives), that ye may consume it upon your lusts.

    Proverbs 4:23 - Keep your heart with all diligence,
    For out of it spring the issues of life.

    God bless you :)


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