Saturday, May 17, 2014

I JUST WANT TO BE THE GIRL YOU LIKE

Oh, you thought he liked you. No, he liked what he could get from you. Women that need to have a man in their life will always remain a victim to the game. There are too many women going hard for men that just see them in the physical sense. A man will run game on any woman that allows him to do so. He knows when a woman isn't strong enough to demand respect for herself.

You cannot manipulate a man into staying with you. He might be with you physically for the time being, but that doesn't guarantee that he isn't elsewhere.What are you getting for everything that you are giving up physically, mentally, and emotionally? It's time to stop throwing our hearts and bodies away for men that could care less about us.

The only way to know that you don't need a man in your life, is to not have one in your life. Once you accomplish that then you have control. This may be easy for some and harder for others. From what I see, there are many women that have difficulty grasping this concept.

If you really want to know if a man truly likes or loves you for the woman that you are, take sex off of the table. All men are interested in sex, but that usually clears out any man that wasn't interested in anything other than sex. Yes, you have to force a man to respect you. He needs to earn what he wants, it is not to be given for free.

Actions reveal a lot. Many women overlook the signs that are right in front of their faces just to say that they have a man in their life. If you need a man to validate who you are, then you have a wrong and long road ahead of you. Ladies we can't keep doing the same thing and expect a different result.



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2 comments:

  1. What A WORD, I pray that you continue to BE encouraged and also encourage other women to know their VALUE.
    Proverbs 31:10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
    MUCH LOV,Dad

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