Thursday, February 20, 2014

Classy Women Never Negotiate!!!

Classy women don't negotiate their value. When you know your worth you don't settle for less. Yes, no one wants to be alone. But are you willing to be with someone at any cost? It has always been a rule of mine to never chase a man. One, because I was taught that it is the man's responsibility to seek after that which he desires. Two, just not in my nature to chase after a guy. Three, I'm too busy chasing my dreams, no time for chasing men.

A man knows what he wants, and he will go after what he wants. If you have to go after him, either he doesn't want you or he is not man enough to go after you. It is as simple as that. I personally don't want someone who doesn't want me and I definitely do not want a passive man.

Women that pursue men give out their number without being asked, ask men out on dates, and the worst thing that a woman can do is ask a man to marry them. Now there is a difference in telling a guy that you are looking for a serious relationship that is going to lead to marriage. Or let's say that you have been in a relationship for a while and you mention to him that you are ready to get married. I'm okay with that, but if you have to give a ultimatum like marry me or I'm leaving then I'm a bit worried.

 Let's say that you do spark up a conversation with a guy, it is up to him to take the hint. If he doesn't take it, there is nothing else that you need to do. Women with class do not chase after men and they do not flaunt themselves as if they are for sale. Some women get mad if a man approaches them a certain way based on how they are dressed. If I'm advertising myself but then I decide I'm not available why am I mad at the guy. Most men are initially attracted to what they can see with their eyes. So if you expect a man to respect you, you first have to respect yourself in the way that you dress, talk and behave.

You know what you want, you know what you are bringing to the table. Therefore, there is no room for negotiation.



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2 comments:

  1. Good stuff, everyone knows what it cost to drive a car. A car needs gas and gas cost per gallon, so the same way we need a certain amount of money to buy one gallon of gas no one should expect to get a full gallon if they don't have the full amount of money. We are suppose to get what we pay or work for :)
    MUCH LOVE, Dad

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