Thursday, September 29, 2011

LECTURING

You have to know when it is the right time to lecture a person. It is very difficult to determine the perfect timing. Sometimes, it is about the manner in which you lecture someone. Knowing how to communicate properly with an individual can be very important to the outcome of a situation. You can't appear to be judging them or looking down on them. You can give advice and provide guidance to someone without verbally abusing them. The worst time to lecture someone is when they don't want the information. People won't accept things until they are ready to accept them. Sometimes, it may appear that the individual isn't receiving what you are saying, but it doesn't mean that they are not. People have different ways of dealing with things. I think we tend to lecture people based on an initial reaction to a situation. It would probably be better to calm down and think about the situation before you speak. Are you qualified to lecture that person on that particular situation? Have you personally dealt with an similar issue? These are some things to take in consideration before you lecture a person. Lecturing is good, you just have to know when and how to lecture.

2 comments:

  1. Well I have a few people that Im holding out on not lecturing yet :)

    Dad

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  2. Naomi I think a lecture should be dome in classroom setting and the participates should want to be involved in the conversation. The otherhand parents should not lecture their children. I think parents should take to their children on a daily basis. mom

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